I Didn’t Know I Needed This
My Debut Book is Out Now
I Didn’t Know I Needed This is an advice column that looks less like ‘Dear Abby’ and more like your audacious older sister sitting on your bed with a handle of tequila and a box of tissues and a bottle of lube and saying “If you like him… just tell him. Worst case it's a good story, best case, it's the rest of your life.”
I Didn’t Know I Needed This is a to-do list of self-appreciation and validation and answers to questions like: who texts first after the first date? How do I ask him to go down on me during sex? And what the fuck am I supposed to do with a broken heart?
The title comes from the DM and comment I receive 500 times a day.
“Thank you so much for this. I didn’t know I needed this.”
The best part is, sometimes I share something with my followers, and I didn’t even know I needed that open and freeing dialogue too. This book is my scripture, one I’ve shared pieces of in 3-minute videos and Instagram stories. I Didn’t Know I Needed This will give you the rules for how to use your voice, how to fuck to finish, what to wear on a first date and how to fall in love with yourself in such an intimate and truthful way that you will be fulfilled and invigorated. These are the rules for intimate and intimidating and fearless foreplay—in the bedroom and in life.
Get Yours Here
Get Yours Here
Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?
My sophomore book, Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?: The New Rules for Conquering the Quarter-life Crisis, a collection of essays about what it means to become a so-called adult and what to do when it feels like you have nothing figured out, will be released in October 2025.
